Now you have the baby - no need for anybody else?

Same lady today told me some things that made me thinking...
...again... it seems she really makes me thinking a lot...

Here is what she said:
- Once the baby is there you love him so much that you don't need anybody else, isn't it?
- Once your baby is born you love him so much that you love your husband less and become more distant to him, isn't it?

No, It isn't!

My family and their advise and support are just as important to me than before and without them Mesut and me would be totally lost.
The relation between me and my husband has become so much stronger because of what we have lived together. He held my hands and made dua for me while I was screaming like crazy trying to push that baby out.
We lived moments together which were so intense we never imagined possible.
We did that together, so we can do anything together!

Thank you for everything ya Usamati.
Alhamdoulilah!!!