Life doesn't happen to us, it happens for us!

I am not the victim of my situation.

I choose to be in the situation that I am in.

I can always change the situation that I am in, weather by leaving it or by adjusting it so that I can feel fine with it.

I am not a victim, nor slave nor in need to submit to other than Allah subhanah wa taalah!

I am worthy to adjusting my life according to my needs and my wellbeing

I am worthy to be happy and content

I have my life situation in my own hand and it's my responsibility to adjust it so much so that I can feel good!

It is my responsibility to feel happy!

It is my responsibility to feel happy and loved so that I can GIFT happiness and love to my loved ones!